20 Traditional—and Modern—10-Year Anniversary Gift Ideas
These presents prove your bond is stronger than ever.
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A 10th wedding anniversary gift is, traditionally, made of tin or aluminum. Tin was traditionally used to store and preserve things, so honoring a decade of love with the material has long been apropos. Because tin and aluminum won't rust and keep their shine over time, the materials are also a symbol of resiliency and strength. Their durability and pliability also pay tribute to the flexibility a long-lasting commitment requires.
Despite all that backstory, neither material feels incredibly festive. So, consider splurging on something that feels more true to you as a couple for your 10-year anniversary. For a more contemporary approach, diamonds have become the newly-minted custom for year number 10. Scoring a perfect 10 on the Mohs scale, diamonds are the hardest natural material on the planet; it's no wonder that they've become customary for celebrating 10 years of marriage—whether in the form of new baubles or an upgrade to your wedding band or engagement ring. Silver or blue have also been deemed customary colorways for celebrating a decade of marriage, should diamonds, aluminum, or tin not strike a chord.
If you're still craving a little inspiration as you pick out a little gift to celebrate your decade of partnership, ahead you'll find 20 gifts that range from jewelry to at-home indulgences that you can enjoy together. Consider these the 10-year anniversary gifts that will be universally beloved, either for their sentimentality or for the fact that they're just plain practical.
Rather than picking up anything too closely resembling an engagement ring or wedding band, surprise her (or him) with something heirloom-quality, wearable, and stackable.
Serena Confalonieri Set of 2 Calypso Pink and Amber Champagne Glasses
Cheers to 10 years with a set of champagne coupes in shades of pink. Round out the gift with a bottle of your favorite vintage, and pop it together to toast a year as a married couple.
Opt for a stunning table in the material of the moment: cast aluminum. The natural color variation and textures of this metal—paired with its unique shape—make this piece feel undeniably modern, yet like a treasured vintage find.
Diamonds may be a girl's best friend, but trust us: men appreciate them too. Opt for a pair of these cuff links for the guy who loves to get dressed up.
If you plan to skip the aluminum, tin, diamonds, and more, opt for something undeniably celebratory that you can enjoy together. Take this gift a step further and choose a vintage from a year that means something to you both, be it a birth year, family anniversary year, or a historic moment in time.
Chanel Pre-Owned 1997 Diamond-Quilted Flap Handbag
Stick to a theme, but get creative. Diamond quilting (especially in the form of a must-have bag) works just as well for the fashion fanatic as fine jewelry.
Daffodils symbolize positivity and resiliency, as they are strong survivors capable of weathering winter storms. As a result, they are also often used to symbolize ten years, making them an apropos symbol for those looking to upgrade their china ten years post-registry.
Aluminum comes in many forms, even tech-savvy ones. For the couple looking to trade small tokens rather than grand gestures, elevate his or her work-from-home or music-listening experience with a new pair of metal earbuds. Pair this gift with the most sentimental of cards and a romantic playlist curated by you.
If she's not one to wear diamond studs and prefers pieces that are bolder, choose a pair of earrings that make a statement—be it in their scale, movement, or both.
This is the ultimate anniversary splurge. For the watch-obsessed, surprise him with a sleek gold watch. This gift will speak not only to his passions, but also to the amount of time you've spent together.
Give her trousseau an upgrade with this elegant slip. This color channels one of the year's biggest trends, but also acknowledges her need for some much-needed R&R. To amp this gift up a notch, pair it with an at-home spa day for two.
As summer ramps up, plan a step up from your honeymoon or a relaxing weekend getaway. Then, throw in the luggage to go with it.
Calling all romantics and sentimentalists: If the resiliency and strength of daffodils speaks to you, this ceramic arrangement will remind you of your bond as it sits on display at home.
Set an intention for the decade ahead with functional works of art that add scents and something special to your home.
If you're music lovers and at-home entertainers, this is a gift for you both. Opt for a speaker that looks as beautiful as the music you play on it.
For couples who enjoy the chance to take on a challenge together, invest in an exercise bike that you can both use for fun.
If a ring isn't quite her style, try a sleek diamond-studded bracelet that she'll wear forever.
Jeni's Ice Cream Pint Club 12 Month Subscription
If your favorite activity together is to indulge, consider gifting that special someone something sweet. This ice cream subscription ensures that they'll never go without a little sugary nightcap.
Don't rely on your iPhone to capture your next decade of memories. Invest in a camera that you can take around the world with you, but also use to photograph special moments at home.
Want something especially sentimental? This locket is a great way to treasure shared memories.
Heather Hall is a weddings, fashion, and lifestyle writer and editor. Her career in weddings began at The Knot, where she worked as a bridal fashion editor. She then worked as a PR Manager at Amsale, a bridal design house, before starting her own events and digital marketing business. She has been featured on Today.com, MSN.com, Yahoo.com, Racked.com, Huffington Post, Verily Magazine, and Style Me Pretty. Heather loves music, travel, and practicing yoga. In her spare time she's typically researching the next fun workout class to try, or finding a new concert to attend. Her latest goal: become a DJ.
Aemilia Madden is a freelance writer, editor, and consultant with over 10 years of experience in the fashion industry. She’s written for publications including Vogue, Harper’s Bazaar, Elle,The Cut, and The Wall Street Journal.
She also writes a newsletter called Taeste Bud, that covers stuff we buy, places we go, and the people we want to be. Previously, she held roles at The Zoe Report, WhoWhatWear and Popsuagar. Aemilia attended the University of California, Berkeley where she majored in Political Economics. In her time away from the internet, Aemilia is probably out on a hike.
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