When Matt Rubin went to look for his own wedding ring in 2016, he was left with an overwhelming sense of confusion. It was the first piece of jewelry he would be buying for himself, so he did what any millennial man would do: he typed best men’s wedding rings into Google. The results were...interesting.

“I knew I wanted something classic from a small jeweler, but all I could find were galleries of silicone rings, or really chunky rings with prominent designs on them,” says the New York-based 35-year-old.

CLASSIC ROUND
Classic Round, 3mm, Yellow Gold, Shiny
MR O.K Classic Round, 3mm, Yellow Gold, Shiny
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Classic Round, 4mm, Rose Gold, Matte
MR O.K Classic Round, 4mm, Rose Gold, Matte
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Classic Round, 5mm, White Gold, Shiny
MR O.K Classic Round, 5mm, White Gold, Shiny
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Classic Round, 6mm, Yellow Gold, Shiny
MR O.K Classic Round, 6mm, Yellow Gold, Shiny
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Left with more questions than when he started, Rubin figured it would be easier to walk into a jewelry store himself. But he was soon faced with the realization that most cater to women, who usually already know what they’re looking for. So he took his jewelry-designer fiancée with him (Olivia Fleming, the founder of Olivia Kane and editor at BAZAAR.com), who could help translate the confusing verbiage about finishes, widths and sizes.

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“I had no idea what style, size, or metal to pick,” admits Rubin. “Olivia helped me narrow it down, but if she wasn't with me I’d have left more clueless than when I walked in. Choosing a wedding ring should be a special moment, but for men who have never actually worn jewelry before, it can be really overwhelming.”

After all, weddings have enough decisions, he adds.

Eventually, Rubin figured there had to be a better way—a place men could feel confident they would be taken care of, with someone at the ready to answer all of their questions. So with the help of his soon-to-be wife, he launched MR O.K (pronounced mister okay; an acronym for Matt Rubin, Olivia Kane—get it?) in June 2017, one month before his own wedding day.

CLASSIC FLAT
Classic Flat, 3mm, Rose Gold, Shiny
MR O.K Classic Flat, 3mm, Rose Gold, Shiny
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Classic Flat, 4mm, Yellow Gold, Matte
MR O.K Classic Flat, 4mm, Yellow Gold, Matte
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Classic Flat, 5mm, White Gold, Shiny
MR O.K Classic Flat, 5mm, White Gold, Shiny
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Classic Flat, 6mm, Yellow Gold, Shiny
MR O.K Classic Flat, 6mm, Yellow Gold, Shiny
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Made in New York from high quality sustainable gold, MR O.K offers two timeless styles in an array of widths—the kind of classic men's wedding rings you’ll feel proud to wear forever. And the price point isn’t bad either, with rings starting at $400.

In the end, Rubin made himself a 4mm half round wedding ring in 14k yellow gold, with a shiny polish. He also had Olivia's birthstone set inside the band, something he offers at MR O.K.

BIRTHSTONES
Classic Round, 3mm, Rose Gold, Shiny
MR O.K Classic Round, 3mm, Rose Gold, Shiny
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Classic Flat, 4mm, Yellow Gold, Shiny
MR O.K Classic Flat, 4mm, Yellow Gold, Shiny
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Classic Round, 6mm, Rose Gold , Shiny
MR O.K Classic Round, 6mm, Rose Gold , Shiny
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Classic Flat, 6mm, Yellow Gold, Shiny
MR O.K Classic Flat, 6mm, Yellow Gold, Shiny
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“We’re trying to eliminate all the guesswork out of choosing your wedding ring, offering guidance every step of the way,” says Rubin. "Like the ring itself, the experience should be special. Adding your partner's birthstone inside adds an extra bit of secret sentimentality—because only you two know it's there."

And if you don’t know your size, don't panic. MR O.K will send you a ring sizer to get you started.