Creating Motherhood is a collection of stories focused on the intersection of family and creativity and how to live an artful life as a parent.
When you become a mom, your needs change, but your personal style doesn’t have to. In “Mom Brain,” parents with great taste tell us what they're buying—for their kids and for themselves.
Right now on Mei Kawajiri’s Instagram account, there’s a picture of two hands, whose eight fingers are all wearing scrunchy socks and loafers. One thumbnail is decorated in the plaid of a schoolgirl skirt; the other is painted with a sailor top. It’s all in a day’s work for Kawajiri, otherwise known as @nailsbymei, who makes nail art with a strong emphasis on the “art” part of the equation.
Born in Kyoto, Japan, Kawajiri opened her own salon in Tokyo’s Harajuku district at the astonishingly young age of 23. After she came to New York in 2012, she began making a name for herself in the fashion industry—she’s created sculptural, high-concept nails for brands from Miu Miu to Marc Jacobs to Balenciaga. You can spot her work on members of New York’s club scene and on celebrities like Gigi Hadid.
Nine months ago, Kawajiri gave birth to a little girl, Itsuki. Below, she answers all our questions about how she’s been thinking about life, style, and manicures since she became a mom.
What’s one thing you wear when you want to feel comfortable?
An oversize XL T-shirt from Online Ceramics.
What’s one thing you wear when you want to feel powerful?
Eyeliner. I like the Japanese brand Heroine Make.
What’s one thing you wear when you want to feel hot?
Super-fun, unique nails with lots of 3-D nail art that I create myself.
What gadgets or items do you find most useful for parenting?
We have two strollers and can’t live without them! The Uppababy is great for grocery shopping and has a basket underneath. The Doona is smaller and turns into a car seat. Good to have two types!
In your opinion, what are the best gifts for kids?
Voice note messages! We created the first voice note when I was pregnant for our baby! We will save them for her to listen to when she is older. Also, take lots of pictures!
What are your favorite places to buy children’s clothing?
My favorite place for children’s clothing is Miki House. I was wearing Miki House when I was a baby in Japan, so this is a fond connection to my own childhood. I also love Petit Bateau.
What’s one kids’ book your family loves?
We love to read Itsuki books in Japanese!
Where do you go for kid room decor or furniture? Are there any pieces in particular that you’d recommend?
BabyBjörn is amazing! We love their stuff for our nursery.
What shoes do you wear when you’re in mom mode? What shoes do you love for decidedly not mom mode?
My Asics gel sneakers for mom mode. Loewe loafers for all things not mom mode!
What about for bags?
I have a ’90s-style X-Girl backpack that I bought in Japan for when I’m in mom mode. We can’t go out without diapers, water, milk, a change of clothes, etc., so I always bring it along. When it’s not mom mode, my yellow shearling Prada handbag.
In your opinion, what’s the best gift for a new parent?
Puzzles! While the baby is sleeping, we can play quietly.
What about for a favorite teacher or caregiver?
Hand cream! I’m sure they wash their hands a million times!
What’s the best vacation you’ve ever taken with kids?
Our first trip as a family was to Japan to see my parents. It was 14-hour flight, but worth it! I’ll never forget the first time Itsuki met her grandparents, and it was so special to show her where I grew up.
What’s your best advice to anyone who’s about to become a parent?
Take care of yourself in addition to taking care of the baby. I have never been busier in my life, but it’s important to take moments to not lose sight of yourself. Make time for yourself when you can! This has been so challenging, especially with my busy career, but I love being Itsuki’s mom.
