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25 Ways to Be the Best Gift Giver in Your Friend Group

Up your gift-giving rep.

By and Lauren Caruso
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When it comes to gift giving, chances are you have a short list of people you want to go all out for, and your friends are somewhere near the top. This means, you have to both find a gift that shows how much you care and proves that you truly know what they like. Whether you're celebrating a birthday, a holiday, or an important life event (think: an engagement or landing a new gig), there can be a lot of pressure to secure that perfect present.

One of the secrets to finding the best gift for your friend is to give her something you know she wants but would never actually buy for herself. Something like the perfect robe or a new Smeg coffee machine, which is as practical as it is enjoyable. For the fitness buff in your life, consider gifting a sleek, new pair of sneakers to replace her tired old trainers. The bottom line: Get your friend something that shows you know her like the back of your hand—something that you know will last, in her closet, her kitchen, or her gym bag—and it will be a guaranteed hit.

Chanel Pre-owned 1990 CC Turnlock Logo Bracelet

1990 CC Turnlock Logo Bracelet
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Who would say no to vintage Chanel?

Smeg Drip Filter Coffee Machine

Drip Filter Coffee Machine
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For your friend who is always on the run, Smeg's drip coffee machine will get her day started the right way. 

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Sabine Marcelis Glaze Splash Small Mirror

Glaze Splash Small Mirror
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Crafted in the Netherlands by Dutch designer Sabine Marcelis, this Glaze Splash mirror will become a conversation starter. 

Natalie Obradovich Natalie Obradovich One Fire

Natalie Obradovich One Fire
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Bring the beach to them, everday.

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Hermès Pre-owned 1988 Constance Shoulder Bag

1988 Constance Shoulder Bag
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If you have a friend born in 1988, this vintage Hermès bag is the perfect way to say “happy birthday”—because it’s exactly as old as she is. 

Luxe Dominoes Rummy Tile Game

Rummy Tile Game

For the friend who's always down for a quick game.

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Nikon 24-50mm Lens Kit

24-50mm Lens Kit
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Indulge her burgeoning photography career with this impressive camera from Nikon.

Heron Preston x Cat Intruder Sneaker

x Cat Intruder Sneaker
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Is your BFF a sneaker buff? Get her a pair she'd never actually buy herself.  

Loewe Honeysuckle Candle

Honeysuckle Candle

Upgrade her work-from-home desk situation with this adorable candle from Loewe.

Gigi Burris Gigi Burris Pat Visor in Burnt

Gigi Burris Pat Visor in Burnt

Sun protection, but make it fashion.

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Fendi Small Croissant Shoulder Bag

Small Croissant Shoulder Bag
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She’s had her eye on this one long enough.

Cartier Tank Américaine 34.8mm Small 18-Karat Rose Gold and Alligator Watch

Tank Américaine 34.8mm Small 18-Karat Rose Gold and Alligator Watch
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Time for a celebration? Do it properly.

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Bien Mal Mate - Throw Blanket

Mate - Throw Blanket
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A cozy throw blanket, like this one from Cali-based brand Bien Mal, is never a bad idea.

Marloe Marloe Stevie Geometric Vase

Stevie Geometric Vase
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If you're always getting her flowers, try switching things up with this very chic vase instead.

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NuFACE Trinity + Eye and Lip Enhancer Attachment Bundle

Trinity + Eye and Lip Enhancer Attachment Bundle

We all have one friend who's not quite ready to dip her toe back into the IRL spa experience.

Nanushka Helisa Short-Sleeve Wrap Dress

Helisa Short-Sleeve Wrap Dress
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For the sustainably minded, this vegan leather dress from Nanushka is perfect for those in-between weather days.

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samsung 51-Bottle Capacity Wine Cooler in Stainless Steel

51-Bottle Capacity Wine Cooler in Stainless Steel

Skip the wine and go straight to the chic wine refrigerator.

Westman Atelier Westman Atelier Lit Up Highlight Stick

Westman Atelier Lit Up Highlight Stick

Only you two will know how she really gets that glow.

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Senia Montague Anklet

Montague Anklet
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Remember friendship necklaces? We’re all for adult friendship anklets

The Museum of Modern Art Alexander Calder: Modern from the Start - Hardcover

Alexander Calder: Modern from the Start - Hardcover
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Even if she's not an art history buff, anyone would love the simplicity of modern sculptor Calder's work—even if it's just in coffee-table book form. 

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