20 Chic Mother of the Groom Gifts To Show Your Love & Appreciation
Level up thank you gifting with these unique ideas she didn't know she needed.
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Traditionally, the role of the groom’s (or grooms') mother(s) is a little more limited than that of the mother of the bride, but that doesn't mean she's any less key to the celebration. While there's no clear-cut expectation that the mother-of-the-groom has to be more or less involved in the wedding planning, it's customary for her to offer guidance, preferences, and opinions throughout the process. Odds are, she'll likely play just as an important role as the mother-of-the-bride—particularly during the ceremony.
When it comes to celebrating the mother or mothers of-the-groom, do so with a thoughtful gift that will be appreciated, enjoyed, and that she'd likely never splurge on herself. Thank your mom or mother-in-law-to-be for all of her love and support throughout the wedding planning process and throughout your lifetime. From chic coffee-table books and luxe loungewear essentials to beauty must-haves and home decor splurges, we’ve rounded up all the best gifts to shop now that take traditional thank you gifting to the next level.
Opt for a chic robe or kimono for her to sport around the house, by the pool, on the wedding day and beyond. We love this option, which is chic and also sustainably made. This gift also gives back: Alicia Swim contributes to the MMCS (Mauritius Marine Conservation Society) for every purchase made, supporting marine life in the delicate ecosystems of the Indian Ocean.
Give your mom something she'll enjoy wearing every day, not just on your wedding weekend. Show your love with a chain-link bracelet symbolizing unity—and as a subtle nod to your new, forever linked bond as a family.
This gift is for the wellness-obsessed, and encourages her to take care of herself and her body. Those who are all about prioritizing self care will appreciate all the helpful tips in this book; add to the offering by gifting her a massage, some essential oils, or a selection of fine olive oils to go along with it.
There's no reason your mother should look any less fabulous than you, or your other key bridal party members. For beach or outdoor affairs, choose a pair of sunglasses you know will complement her looks for the wedding, and her outfits in the future.
Give your in-laws something to enjoy at home, whether they are reading in the evening, enjoying a dinner for two, or entertaining.
A petite pair of diamond earrings are always a good idea—especially if they are gifted to your mother on the day of the wedding and pair perfectly with her gown.
For the mom who loves all things floral, gardening, and decorating, give her something to enjoy making arrangements in—and that she'll love showing off in the living room or on the dinner table.
You know what every mother needs after months of wedding planning? A good night's sleep. She likely also needs an upgrade to her stay-at-home wardrobe. Take it to the next level with a luxe pajama set she'll love, wear all the time, and totally deserves.
Slippers are always thoughtful for a nod to self-care, but these indoor/outdoor options are ones she'll enjoy wearing at home, and showing off with a pair of trousers on casual days out.
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Opt for a gift she'd never buy for herself but deserves more than measure. A new watch nods to how generous she's been with her time during wedding planning, and throughout your upbringing. When shopping, choose a transitional timepiece that suits both daytime and evening looks, like this diamond embellished option.
Gift her a chic new piece of wall art to update her office, sitting room, or study. Case in point: this stylish signed print pairs perfectly with a handwritten note expressing your love and appreciation for all of your mom's support in the past, and in the planning process.
This light, deeply nourishing blend of oils fortified with Vitamin C and Omegas 3, 6, and 9 penetrates the skin quickly—and it's formulated with amla, blue tansy, and roman chamomile, which work to soothe and brighten skin. Give this to your mothers along with other clean beauty picks for an at-home spa experience they'll love.
Unique jewelry will always hold a special place in a woman's heart, and she'll enjoy wearing it knowing that it came from you. Opt for something that pairs well with her other pieces and her personal style—and choose something she'd never splurge on for herself.
Show your gratitude with a chic gift box to help her de-stress and unwind.
Sometimes it's not about an over-the-top token of your gratitude, but more about giving something you know she'll love—and use. Case in point: the chicest raffia floral placemats that will add oomph to the family dinners she loves hosting.
A luxe piece of loungewear for her to wear at home is something she'll appreciate—and use for years.
Your future-mother-in-law may have just helped you reschedule your dream wedding venue or vendor, so find out what bag she's been coveting for just as long—then, make it happen.
Surprise her with a beautiful display piece, like this rose quartz tray, which works as a piece of objet, a serving platter for desserts, or a trinket tray for displaying her favorite jewelry pieces.
For coffee-lovers and at-home chefs, upgrade her espresso machine so that she can have a barista-quality cup each morning.
With more time spent at home than ever before, give a gift that updates her bedroom or living spaces—like a cozy throw.
Heather Hall is a weddings, fashion, and lifestyle writer and editor. Her career in weddings began at The Knot, where she worked as a bridal fashion editor. She then worked as a PR Manager at Amsale, a bridal design house, before starting her own events and digital marketing business. She has been featured on Today.com, MSN.com, Yahoo.com, Racked.com, Huffington Post, Verily Magazine, and Style Me Pretty. Heather loves music, travel, and practicing yoga. In her spare time she's typically researching the next fun workout class to try, or finding a new concert to attend. Her latest goal: become a DJ.
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