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22 Chic Thank You Gift Ideas For Your Parents & In-Laws

All the ways to show your gratitude for their help in planning your (absolutely epic) wedding.

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Christian Oth

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Whether you're in the planning process or your wedding day is on the horizon, it's likely you couldn't have pulled it all off without your parents, in-laws, godparents, or someone you consider an honorary family member. And if we've learned anything in the past year, we know it's all about being grateful and keeping our loved ones close.

While expressing love doesn't always involve a token of appreciation—why not use this time in your life to take traditional gifting to the next level? Splurge on something you know they'll love, and that you are positive they'll enjoy for years to come. Express your gratitude for their love and support with a unique gift (or two) that will mean more than measure. 25 of our favorites, ahead.

Stephanie Fishwick Room for Dessert

Room for Dessert
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Sometimes it's not about an over-the-top token of your gratitude, but more about giving your mother or mother-in-law something you know she'll love. These dessert plates are perfect for the at-home entertainer, but also work beautifully as trinket dishes, too.

IWC Time Flies

Time Flies
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Gift your father (or future father-in-law) a gift he'd never buy himself. A timepiece is a popular groom's gift, but this is for the father or father figure who would typically not invest in himself. A piece this special is one he is sure to wear on your wedding day—and cherish for decades to come.

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The New York Times Anniversary Book

Anniversary Book
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For sentimentalists and history buffs, gift your parent(s) a beautifully bound day-in-the-life of their wedding date as you prepare for yours.

Art + Cook Top Chef

Top Chef
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For the home cooks and foodies in your life, opt for a gift you know they'll make use of. An elevated new set of pots and pans for the kitchen will offer the update any kitchen needs after a year spent preparing each and every meal at home.

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UNICEF Pay It Forward

Pay It Forward
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Give a gift that gives back by donating to a charity that focuses on children and families around the world. 

Olivia Von Halle Pajama Dressing

Pajama Dressing
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Trust us: after a year of postponing, planning, and the ups and downs of 2020, your mom needs sleep as much as you do. Take that downtime to the next level with a luxe sleep set she'd likely never buy for herself but certainly deserves.

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Petrossian Caviar for Two

Caviar for Two
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Treat your parents to a decadent date night. Take this gift to the next level by serving it with all the fixings: blinis, creme fraiche, and more—plus a top-shelf bottle of Champagne or vodka for the perfect pairing. 

Mirror At-Home Workout

At-Home Workout

For the fitness enthusiast or the reluctant gym visitor, treat your parents to an at-home workout that safely brings classes to them.

Lorenzi Milano Nailed It

Nailed It

When in doubt, gift the elevated version of something simple and familiar—like this spruced up tool kit any handyman (or woman) will love.

Material Good Diamond Tennis Bracelet

Diamond Tennis Bracelet

This show-stopping gesture is as stunning as it is timeless, and your mom will undoubtedly enjoy a gift this classic for the wedding day—and beyond. 

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Assouline Coffee Table Keepsake

Coffee Table Keepsake
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Chose a sentimental token that's also beautiful, like Claiborne Swanson Frank's exploration of modern motherhood. This book is all about parenthood and the power of love, so be sure to include a handwritten note to your mother inside the front cover.

Sotheby's Wine Sommelier Splurge

Sommelier Splurge

For wine lovers, gift your parents the option to choose a bottle they love or have been reluctant to splurge on themselves. For an added element of sentiment, choose a vintage from their anniversary year, or the varietal they served at their wedding.

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TKRG Bucket List Meal

Bucket List Meal

This is, without a doubt, an indulgence your parents won't see coming. This gift card allows your parents to enjoy a dinner at Per Se in New York or French Laundry in Northern California, two of the best restaurants on the planet from master Chef Thomas Keller. 

AERIN Poker Face

Poker Face

This poker set is a chic addition to any man cave or game room for fun game nights spent at home.

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Chic Stones

Chic Stones

Get your mom a pair of earrings with your birthstone, hers, or maybe color in the wedding palette. Take it a step further and get yourself a matching set.

Apple High Touch Tech

High Touch Tech
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Fun fact: parents love iPads. From storing photos to streaming shows and reading books, this is the kind of gift your parents won't realize they wanted—until you wrap it in a bow.

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Bouqs Fresh Flowers

Fresh Flowers
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For nature lovers, keep your gratitude for your parents going by delivering fresh flowers month after month. Switch it up each time with a different bloom, color, or arrangement.

La Mer The Beauty Must-Have

The Beauty Must-Have
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Your mother is more likely to spend money on a spa treatment for you than on a superstar beauty product for herself. Treat her a tried-and-true cream you know she'll love, but that she may never splurge on for herself.

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SAINT LAURENT Carry All

Carry All
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Your mom likely just helped you score your dream wedding gown. Find out what bag she's been coveting for just as long—then make it happen.

Bosch Kitchen Goals

Kitchen Goals

You may be receiving endless registry items to trick out your newlywed kitchen, but that's no reason your parents shouldn't get a culinary update, too. For coffee lovers, an espresso maker— especially a sleek built-in version—takes home kitchens to the next level.

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Heather Hall
Contributing Weddings Writer

Heather Hall is a weddings, fashion, and lifestyle writer and editor. Her career in weddings began at The Knot, where she worked as a bridal fashion editor. She then worked as a PR Manager at Amsale, a bridal design house, before starting her own events and digital marketing business. She has been featured on Today.com, MSN.com, Yahoo.com, Racked.com, Huffington Post, Verily Magazine, and Style Me Pretty. Heather loves music, travel, and practicing yoga. In her spare time she's typically researching the next fun workout class to try, or finding a new concert to attend. Her latest goal: become a DJ.  

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