19 Unique, Romantic Gifts for Your 4th Anniversary
Traditional jewelry ideas, unconventional tokens, and beyond.
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Sure, tradition may dictate the type of gift you're supposed to get your significant other for each wedding anniversary—paper for the first, cotton for the second, leather for the third, and florals or fruit for the fourth—but outdated rules aren't for everyone. In fact, if you're ready to buck tradition rather than lean into it, there's no shortage of unique, romantic gift ideas to explore for your fourth anniversary.
While you can opt for something sensual like a set of silk sheets to accompany a lush bath robe, there's no reason you can't stick to tried-and-true ideas, like jewelry, a new fragrance, or something for the home if they're an interior design buff. That said, for a more modern, unconventional approach, another newly minted yet customary riff on a fourth-year anniversary gift is an electrical appliance or other tech-centric gift for the person who loves to be ahead of the game.
From romantic gestures and home decor to kitchen updates and beyond, get inspired with the following chic, smart, and romantic gift ideas. Ahead, the most thoughtful and unique four-year anniversary gifts to shop now.
Première Première WANTED de CHANEL Watch
This steel-and-leather braided chain watch from Chanel boasting letter charms is the perfect gift for anyone who loves to see and be seen.
Le Labo Santal 26 Concrete Candle
Exchange sentimental cards and small tokens, like a new home fragrance that's subtly floral or fruity, rather than grand gestures.
Bottega Veneta Cotton Terry Beach Towel
Break out the SPF (and the ingredients for an Aperol Spritz). This towel from Bottega Veneta is the perfect foundation for a beach picnic.
Marcela Cure Il Corpo Bookends
If your partner's head is always in a book, these chic, artful bookends make for the perfect gift. (You can keep your wedding album here too.)
Gaetano Pesce Indian Summer Vessel
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After you've settled into your newlywed abode, it's those unique decorative items that make your house feel like a home. To upgrade your living space, gift a vase that speaks to your personal style as a couple. For bonus points, gift it already filled with flowers for the occasion.
RS Barcelona Mon Oncle Portable Barbeque
This stainless steel barbecue looks like an elegant, vintage-style briefcase when it's closed—but it opens up for a magical surprise.
Hermès H Deco Presentation Plate
Upgrade your serving plates with unique patterns that feel fresh—and mix in well with the settings you registered for.
Give the gift of art that speaks to the unexpected.
Perfect for the person who loves to travel for weeks on end, this suitcase just might inspire you to plan an anniversary trip too.
Therabody Theragun Mini Percussive Therapy Massager
Whether you work out together or they're alone in their fanaticism, a Theragun is a great idea for anyone who's always sore.
Cabana Flora Hand Embroidered Napkin
For the ultimate hostess, gift a table linen upgrade in the form of colorful, hand-embroidered napkins that are floral, bold, chic, and sophisticated—in a playful way.
Gucci Gucci Link to Love 18Kt Gold Necklace with Tourmalines
Nothing says happy anniversary like jewelry. This tourmaline-and-gold necklace from Gucci is bound to be a winner.
Dior Green Lucky Milly Gardening Tool Set
To honor Christian Dior's indelible passion for flowers, Dior debuted a collection of gardening accessories designed by Cordelia de Castellane for the sartorially inclined.
La Perla Hydrangea Silk Chemise
A floral silk slip is an elegant lingerie upgrade—and speaks to the floral themes of year number four.
Parachute Home Linen Sheet Set
If you're looking for a gift that you can both enjoy, go for a bedroom upgrade. We recommend picking up a set (or two) of luxe linen sheets—they're soft, chic, and ideal for long weekend mornings spent in bed with coffee and your favorite Netflix binge.
Even if you don't play, this chic checkers set doubles as home decor.
The best gifts are those that are sure to be used every day, but that they wouldn't likely splurge on for themself. Opt for the most modern of this year's gifting themes and surprise them with a new, super-luxe grooming tool.
John-Richard Collection Faux Quince Florals
This floral arrangement never wilts—so choose your faux blooms wisely. These are handcrafted to look fresh daily, so opt for a color palette, varietal, and vessel that suits her or his favorite room in the house.
Breville Barista Touch Espresso Machine
It may be time to upgrade your morning routine—especially after a year spent indoors. This classic espresso machine has a modern feel, turns your morning brew into a barista-quality cup, and will look sleek on any countertop.
Heather Hall is a weddings, fashion, and lifestyle writer and editor. Her career in weddings began at The Knot, where she worked as a bridal fashion editor. She then worked as a PR Manager at Amsale, a bridal design house, before starting her own events and digital marketing business. She has been featured on Today.com, MSN.com, Yahoo.com, Racked.com, Huffington Post, Verily Magazine, and Style Me Pretty. Heather loves music, travel, and practicing yoga. In her spare time she's typically researching the next fun workout class to try, or finding a new concert to attend. Her latest goal: become a DJ.
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