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The Best Gifts to Show Your Love to the Mother of the Bride

Take traditional thank you gifting to the next level with these unique ideas.

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While it goes without saying, we should honor our mothers daily—but when it comes to paying homage to her as mother-of-the-bride, do so with a thoughtful gift she'll appreciate, savor, and would never splurge on herself. Thank your mom for all of her love and support throughout the wedding planning process, and throughout your lifetime—it's likely you couldn't have pulled any of this off without her. From beauty must-haves to chic accessories and home decor splurges, these are our favorite gift ideas to shop now that take traditional thank you gifting to the next level.

For the Entertainer

Van Gogh Garden Party

Garden Party

Sometimes it's not about an over-the-top token of your gratitude, but more about giving your mother something you know she'll love—and use. Case in point: these Van Gogh rose dessert plates, which are a chic idea for the garden party lover and consonant entertainer. Earn bonus points by buying a few sets of 4, so that your mom can use them for dinner parties large and small. 

For the Mom Who Has Everything...

Cartier A Moment In Time

A Moment In Time

Opt for a gift she'd never buy for herself, but deserves more than measure. A new watch nods to how generous she's been with her time during wedding planning and throughout your upbringing. A gift this special is one your mom is sure to cherish for decades to come. When shopping, choose a transitional timepiece that suits both daytime and evening looks, like this diamond encircled option. 

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For the Mom on the Move

Brahmin Tasteful Tote

Tasteful Tote

Your mom has been helping keep all the wedding planning details organized, so surprise her with a chic new tote bag to sport with weekend looks, wear to work, and to start her new chapter as a mother-in-law.

For the Minimalist

Material Good Diamonds Are Forever

Diamonds Are Forever
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A gift this classic is foolproof. After all, diamonds are a girl's best friend. This tennis strand is something she can don during the day and then layer with others just as dainty when dressing for evening.

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For the Out and About Mom

Krewe Chic Sunnies

Chic Sunnies

For the jet setter, and a mom who likes to style her looks from top to toe, a new pair of sunglasses she wouldn't splurge on herself is another way to show her how much you appreciate her—especially if you're wedding is taking place outdoors, or in a warm weather destination.

For the Beauty Buff

La Mer Spa Day

Spa Day

Your mother is more likely to spend money on a spa treatment for you than on a superstar beauty product for herself. Treat her to a  staple you know should be in her beauty routine, but that you also know she'd never bring herself to splurge on.

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For the Homebody

Olivia von Halle Silk Set

Silk Set

Want to know what your mother needs after months of wedding planning? A good night's sleep. She likely also needs to upgrade her stay at home wardrobe. Take it to the next level with a luxe pajama set she'll love, wear all the time, and totally deserves.

For the Adventure Seeker

Rosewood Dream Getaway

Dream Getaway

Whether you gift her the dollar amount for a nice dinner, an excursion, or the entire experience from start to finish, give your mom the incentive to take the trip of a lifetime.

For the Wine Enthusiast

Chateau D'Yquem Somm's Choice

Somm's Choice
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A bottle of her favorite wine (or a bottle you know she just has to try) is always a good idea. Worried this isn't as sentimental as a keepsake? Gift the bottle with a new set of glasses she'll use again and again.

For the Traditionalist

Chanel Signature Scent

Signature Scent
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This gorgeous floral perfume is so easy-to-wear, classically elegant, and, should she not have a go-to, it may just become your mom's new signature scent.  

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For the Gardener

The Style Marc In Bloom

In Bloom
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For the mom who loves all things floral and spending time outside and in the garden, show your gratitude by surprising her with a flower gift box that you can both arrange together at home. 

For the Tech Savvy Mom

Apple High Touch Tech

High Touch Tech
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This is the kind of gift your mom doesn't know she needs—until you gift it to her. From the size of the screen to the memory capabilities, you'll likely find her cooking while streaming her favorite shows, or cozied up on the couch reading a digital book once you give her this gift.

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For the Fashion Mom

Mateo New York Special Occasion

Special Occasion

A pair of black onyx and diamond baubles are always a good idea—especially if they are gifted to your mother on the day of your wedding and pair perfectly with her gown. 

For the Coffee Snob

Smeg Le Cafe

Le Cafe
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Upgrade her espresso machine so that she can have a barista-quality cup each morning. For an added personal touch, keep her kitchen's color palette in mind and choose one that comes in a chic color, too.  

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For the Style Lover

Assouline History Books

History Books

Opt for a coffee table book you know she'll love, and that will look just as beautiful displayed on her coffee table once she's finished leafing through it.

For the Accessory Obsessed

Bottega Veneta Classic Clutch

Classic Clutch

Your mom may have just helped you score your dream wedding gown, so find out what bag she's been coveting for just as long—then, make it happen. 

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For the Lady Who Lunches

Cabana Magazine X Carolina Herrera Tea Time

Tea Time

A colorful tea set in an assortment of colors is a unique gift idea that she can enjoy from the comfort of home when alone, or entertaining.

For the Sentimentalist

Aerin Pretty Little Things

Pretty Little Things

While your wedding might be all about your receiving show-stopping jewels and being loaned epic heirlooms, don't discount your mother's enviable collection. Rather than buy her an accessory, gift her a great way to store the gorgeous pieces she already owns.

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For the At-Home Chef

From Our Place Always Pan

Always Pan

If your mother loves to cook for herself, her friends, and her family, give her a gift she'll use again and again. This cult kitchen favorite is a do-it-all wonder that was designed to replace 8 traditional pieces of cookware. Plus, it looks pretty too. 

For the Active Mom

Peloton Enjoy the Ride

Enjoy the Ride

For the workout enthusiast—or the reluctant gym visitor—treat your mom to an at-home workout that brings the boutique spin class everyone is talking about (and that she can do with her friends) to her at home.

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Carrie Goldberg
Weddings & Travel Director

Carrie Goldberg is meltsflow.com’s Weddings & Travel Director. She oversees the site’s BAZAAR Bride channel, travel & dining content, and styles fashion and bridal editorials for BAZAAR.com. When she’s not traveling, she spends her free time in her hometown–New York City–where there is no shortage of new places to shop, eat, drink, see and explore.

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Heather Hall
Contributing Weddings Writer

Heather Hall is a weddings, fashion, and lifestyle writer and editor. Her career in weddings began at The Knot, where she worked as a bridal fashion editor. She then worked as a PR Manager at Amsale, a bridal design house, before starting her own events and digital marketing business. She has been featured on Today.com, MSN.com, Yahoo.com, Racked.com, Huffington Post, Verily Magazine, and Style Me Pretty. Heather loves music, travel, and practicing yoga. In her spare time she's typically researching the next fun workout class to try, or finding a new concert to attend. Her latest goal: become a DJ.  

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