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The 16 Best Sex Toys for Solo & Couple Play, According to Reviews

From remote-controlled favorites to beginner-friendly vibrators

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The best sex toys for women have gotten a serious rebrand over the past few years. Gone are the days of covertly ducking inside a sketchy adult shop to discover the newest vibrators and massagers. These days, the bedroom staples are plastered across social media promotions, highway billboards, and the occasional subway ad—a friendly reminder that taking pleasure into your own hands is not only positive but more than welcome.

And anything that can make both solo and partnered sex more fun, pleasurable, and, well, sexy is something to be celebrated. However, with the influx of new gadgets on the market, choosing which battery-operated or manual device is right for you can feel more than a little overwhelming. Unless you have the space and budget to bring home every vibrator under the sun, it’s wise to identify the type of stimulation you prefer to guide your sex toy shopping.

With these parameters in mind, we pored over hundreds of reviews to narrow down the best sex toys for women, and couples shoppers are raving about. From wearable app-controlled options from brands like Lovense to more discreet options like Crave's wearable Vesper Vibrator necklace, read on for our top picks to elevate your next rendezvous or solo experience.


Le Wand

Le Wand Rechargeable Vibrating Massager

Rechargeable Vibrating Massager

Pros

  • 20 vibration speeds
  • 20 patterns
  • Comes in both rechargeable and plug-in

Cons

    Developed by certified sexologist Alicia Sinclair, this high-powered vibrator is made from body-safe silicone and has won numerous awards for its 20 speeds and 20 distinct patterns. With this top-rated device, there are plenty of combinations to take your O to the next level.

    What reviewers are saying: “This product is incredible. I have owned similar products but I was not prepared for the range that this product provides: in terms of power and different tempos/patterns. I love it. I recommend an attachment as well." —Emma B.

    Crave

    Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace

    Vesper Vibrator Necklace

    Pros

    • Great for beginners
    • Travel-friendly
    • USB-rechargable

    Cons

    • Can't be used with lubricants

    This stainless steel wearable vibrator is no bigger than the size of a lipstick and is ideal for pinpoint accurate clitoral stimulation as it features a rounded tip and four vibrational settings. And since the device uses a single button to turn it on and off, its streamlined design is a great option for those new to the world of sex toys.

    What reviewers are saying: "I absolutely love this vibrator necklace. Don’t let the size fool you, it’s incredibly powerful and has multiple settings. Battery lasts decently long as well. It’s also super fun to wear on dates!" —irelandx

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    Kindred Black

    The Ultraviolet Creeper

    The Ultraviolet Creeper
    Credit: Kindred Black

    Pros

    • One-of-a-kind

    Cons

    • Fragile

    Here's a sculptural sex toy that looks more like a work of art than an intimacy essential. That's likely because it's hand-blown and entirely made of glass, making it a serious statement piece for the bedroom.

    Goop

    Wellness G-Spot Vibrator

    Wellness G-Spot Vibrator
    Credit: Amazon

    Pros

    • Water-resistant
    • Hypoallergenic
    • Warms to just above your body temperature

    Cons

    • Not ideal for couples

    The experts at Goop developed this self-heating, G-spot-friendly vibrator to heighten pleasure during solo play thanks to its curved design. It's made from body-safe silicone that has a dual density for extra plushness, with 10 intensities and vibrational patterns to choose from.

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    Njoy

    Pure Wand

    Pure Wand

    Pros

    • Versatile

    Cons

    • Some reviewers found the tool heavy

    Featuring eight inches of medical-grade stainless steel, this tapered curved wand is perfect for intense G-spot or P-spot stimulation. The tool can also be used warm or cold for a controlled intimate massage.

    What reviewers are saying: "Best toy my partner and I have ever purchased." —Bobadob

    Maude

    Band

    Band

    Pros

    • Great for couples
    • Water-resistant
    • Compatible with water-based lubricants

    Cons

    • Not compatible with all lubricants

    If your partner is male, this ring vibrator from Maude is an absolute must. Its stretchy design is supremely comfortable, with five-speed options and nearly a one-hour runtime you both can enjoy.

    What reviewers are saying: "Awesome. Stretchy! Five modes. Comes with a travel pouch. Gave it to my boyfriend just for fun & he loves it." —Lindsay S.

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    Fleur du Mal

    Fleurotique Vibe

    Fleurotique Vibe
    Credit: Fleur du Mal

    Pros

    • Water-resistant and shower safe
    • Features rechargable battery

    Cons

    • Over $100

    Fleur du Mal just released their first dual-ended vibrator that's arguably better than receiving a bouquet of roses. It features three speeds, two intensity levels, and seven distinct vibration patterns on either side for a customizable experience.

    Lelo

    Enigma Cruise

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    Credit: Lelo

    Pros

    • Waterproof
    • Hands-free

    Cons

    • Over $200

    Stimulate both your G-spot and your clitoris with this bendable vibrator. It uses three motors and sonic-wave technology to replicate a finger-like massage motion. Plus, its extra-soft silicone molds to your body perfectly, so your hands can be left to wander elsewhere.

    What reviewers are saying: “The best toy I own. Works every time! Nice and quiet, easy to use!" —ZotB

    Lelo

    Sona Cruise Sonic Massager

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    Sona Cruise Sonic Massager
    Credit: Amazon

    Pros

    • Great for beginners
    • Waterproof
    • Includes one-year warranty

    Cons

    • Best for clitoral and vulva play exclusively

    Combine air stimulation with sonic pulses for unprecedented levels of pleasure. Lelo's Sona Cruise device uses eight vibrational patterns and an ergonomic design for easy pleasure by yourself or with a partner. And since its body-safe silicone material is entirely waterproof, you can even use it in the shower.

    What reviewers are saying: "This device is a real game-changer! The Lelo Sona pleasantly surprised me with its quality and functionality. The design is sleek and ergonomic, fits comfortably in hand, and the material feels amazing to the touch." —Natalia

    New to the world of butt plugs? No need to worry with this tapered and body-safe silicone option from Unbound that makes it simple to ease into anal play. It's also nicely waterproof and features a suction-cup base that allows for hands-free enjoyment.

    What reviewers are saying: "I am admittedly a newbie in this type of intimate adventure, but that said, Nudge is such a smart and supportive product for beginners like me! The material Unbound chose is soft and smooth, and the base is designed for safe and worry-free use. It’s simple, yet versatile for everyone. Five stars, for sure!" —Jewel

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    Dame

    Eva

    Eva
    Credit: Dame

    Pros

    • Ideal for clitoral stimulation
    • Waterproof

    Cons

    • Full charge may take up to four hours

    Good things come in small packages, especially when it comes to the best sex toys. This one from Dame has three intensity levels and is created to stay in place during partnered sex. It also fits directly under your labia for hands-free intimacy.

    What reviewers are saying: "This has truly been a game changer for my husband and me. I'm on top more, and having amazing orgasms. I love that it's so easy to clean and recharge. Highly recommend! :)" —Sue

    We-Vibe

    Nova 2

    Nova 2

    Pros

    • App connected
    • Maintains constant clitoral contact

    Cons

    • Some reviewers found the shape tricky

    Bath time is great for “me time,” and this waterproof, dual-stimulation vibrator is designed just for that and then some. But whether you use it alone in the bath, for partnered sex in the shower, or just in the bedroom, you’ll enjoy both clitoral and G-spot stimulation, with mind-blowing results.

    What reviewers are saying: "The We-Vibe Nova 2 is a standout toy in every sense of the word. As a couple who enjoys exploring new toys, we’ve come to appreciate those that are both innovative and versatile, and the Nova 2 ticks all the boxes." —Anonymous

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    Lovense

    Ferri Wearable Magnetic Panty Vibrator

    Ferri Wearable Magnetic Panty Vibrator

    Pros

    • Great for couples
    • Features a quiet vibration

    Cons

    • Some reviewers had trouble with app connection

    If you enjoy handing over control to your partner, this app-controlled vibrator is going to be your new best friend. The magnetic cap secures the toy in your underwear for discreet public play at any time. As one reviewer said, “It is quiet, the vibration is adjustable, and the patterns you can use or create are fantastic!”

    What reviewers are saying: “This product is amazinggggg for long distance relationships and even solo play. All different kinds of patterns, or you can make your own. Battery life lasts pretty well and it’s pretty discreet and stays in place well. I’d definitely 100% recommend this—especially to long distance couples.” —Anonymous

    Best for G-Spot

    Poco

    Poco
    Credit: MysteryVibe

    Pros

    • Great for travel
    • Includes 16 intensities
    • Shower-proof

    Cons

    • Over $200

    Yes, the G-spot is real, and if you haven’t located yours just yet, it’s time to invest in this bendable vibrator. No two vaginas are alike, which makes this customizable toy such a crucial addition to your vibrator collection.

    What reviewers are saying: “I had never used a vibrator before but this thing is amazing!!” —Jess

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    Coconu

    Wave Massager

    Wave Massager

    Pros

    • Water-resistant
    • Travel-friendly

    Cons

    • Best for clitoral and vulva play exclusively

    This small but mighty vibrator literally fits in the palm of your hand and contains 10 intensity levels for a customizable experience. The tool also nicely comes with a microfiber storage bag and USB charging cable for easy transport when on the go.

    What reviewers are saying: “I love all my Coconu products, and the Wave is no exception! I love the subtle, tasteful packaging and especially appreciate how well it works to spice things up in the bedroom.” —Anonymous

    Cowgirl

    The Cowgirl Cone

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    Cone

    Pros

    • Includes 20 vibration patterns
    • Features several attachment options

    Cons

    • May not be ideal for beginners

    A sex machine for the modern age, this personalized riding toy is equipped with 20 vibration patterns, 10 vibration speeds, and a suction base that will stick to any smooth surface. And since it also comes with several fun attachments, we're betting you won't get bored with the cone anytime soon.

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